A piece of the puzzle is that women can be incredibly angry and resentful. So when you enter a conflict with a woman, then she feels as if she has the right to be as wicked as the mean and she wants to be.
One reason she thinks this way is that most women were raised to repress their anger and be calm, polite, etc. So when they become women feel as if they have a duration of life to express anger on everyone who will take the punishment.
